As a Social House at Middlebury, ΚΔΡ strives to contribute positively to the Middlebury College community and its surrounding communities through its involvement in extra-curricular activities, improvement of campus social life, and undertaking of community service efforts all while upholding the Fraternity's original motto: Honor Super Omnia (Honor Above All Things).
Built on an organization that's over a hundred years old with vast alumni network, ΚΔΡ Social House has a long and continualy evolving history of tradition. Our members come from all backgrounds, and pride themselves on being part of one of the most diverse student organizations at Middlebury College.
While some active members of ΚΔΡ Social House still live in the Fraternity's original house located at 48 South Street (pictured), our members live all across Middlebury College's campus.
While ΚΔΡ is formally recognized by Middlebury College as only a Social House, it is also, in fact, still a nationally-recongized fraternity with 38 active chapters. Furthermore, the chapter of ΚΔΡ at Middlebury is ΚΔΡ's first (Alpha) chapter and has a rich history having been established over a hundred years ago.
George E. Kimball
Chester Munroe Walch
Irving Thurston Coates
Pierce Wordsworth Darrow
Thomas Howard Bartley
Roy Dyer Wood
Gideon R. Norton
Gino Artuo Ratti
Benjamin Edward Farr
In 1905, there were thee fraternities on the Middlebury College campus: Chi Psi, Delta Kappa Epsilon, and Delta Upsilon. Each was founded before the Civil War. There had been no new fraternities formed on the campus until a large neutral group called the Commons Club was formed. From this organization, the Alpha Chapter of Kappa Delta Rho was founded.
George E. Kimball, President of the Commons Club, and two other Common Club members, Irving T. Coates and John Beecher, met in Room 14 of Old Painter Hall to discuss making a more closely knit group and fraternity. The Commons Club was large and not very congenial for intimate friendships at that time. These three men then approached seven other members of the Commons Club who were equally enthusiastic. On May 17, 1905 the ten men met as the charter members of Kappa Delta Rho Fraternity in Room 14 of Old Painter Hall.
The exact circumstances are impossible to recount now that time has passed but there were difficulties as in any new organization. The birth of our Order was announced at a faculty meeting in the fall of 1905 and someone asked, "What is the name of the new Frat.?" The reply was, "Some Greek combination ending in Rho". Other remarks by the faculty indicated they thought they would have a "hard row", or a struggle to exist. Just a few years later, the faculty was hoping that Kappa Delta Rho would not get all the best men.
Founders Kimball, Walch, and Ratti set about drafting a ritual, choosing a name, motto, and constitution which fit the groups ideas and ideals. Chester M. Walch created our secret motto and password. The Founders named the officers after Roman titles instead of Greek Republic titles as many other groups do. They wished to emulate the Romans stern virtues. This brought forth our open motto of Honor Super Omni. The colors of blue and orange which typify freedom and justice were chosen and the coat of arms was later designed by Gino A. Ratti. The letters were chosen with no particular guidelines except that a distinctive letter be used. The letter was Rho. Therein the Founders wrote the ritual with intent to follow their ideals. With few revisions, the ritual has stood the test of time. Our basic structure has remained the same.
During the first years as an organization, Delta Tau Delta sent a representative to the campus to discuss absorbing the group into their order. This was due to the Founders consideration of joining a national fraternity. In the words of Founder Kimball, "...decided that we preferred to paddle our own canoe' and took no further action in the matter".
In the beginning, there were no "pledge classes" or "associate members", but "delegations". In 1913, large classes of ten to fifteen began to be obtained. The chapter used meeting rooms off campus which were tastefully furnished for the secret conclaves, socials, and rush parties. The first issue of The Scroll was published in 1909 for rush purposes. The total undergraduate and alumni circulation was about thirty. From a 1910 issue, one can get an idea of what social life the early KDR's enjoyed.
On April twenty-third we gave a Social Evening' in the frat rooms, and as a change from the usual cardparty and dance, we started off the evening by giving a farce entitled An Economical Boomerang.' This lasted about a half hour and all seemed to enjoy it very much. Following this, Bro. Davidson gave a reading entitled The Fourth at Mellenville.' Then the floor was cleared and dancing was enjoyed until 11:30 when refreshments were served. A few songs and yells and a walk home in the moonlight completed the evenings entertainment.
An annual event was the "Frat Ride." Following exams, the group, with dates, went to nearby Silver Lake for a luncheon and spent the day. Returning by train, they proceeded to the Fraternity rooms and danced until midnight. There was always a close association between alumni and undergraduates in those days. The alumni frequently outnumbered the undergraduates at the "Frat Ride" and the Initiation Banquet held in the fall. The banquet was held at The Brandon Inn several miles from Middlebury. All journeyed by train to the inn and returned via train the following morning. The rooms were decorated with our colors and with roses on the walls and tables. The evenings would go on with entertainment by the Brothers, the reading of letters from alumni, and toasts from seniors and alumni. These usually began and ended on a serious note.
Although traditional affairs are no longer the same, one can see that while by today's standards, the comradery is difficult to equal. The fun of the Fraternity conducted within a framework of self-discipline which is also unequaled today.
Our founders primary aim was that of attaining true standards of manhood and brotherly love. These were not merely high-sounding ideas, but guidelines for life. This was evidenced through the Plain virtues- unpretentiousness, sincerity, and humility and culminated in a high regard for each other's welfare. They were not egocentrics who sought false images of hyper-virility or alcoholic capacity. Following the ritualistic ideals was the test of manhood. Honor Before All Things as our motto was what assisted them with their success. The process which you learn on your own creates inward peace and satisfaction to assist brothers with their problems and deficiencies, and to learn a little more about your fellow man and in turn, allow the same opportunity for your brothers.
The early conservatives had four criteria for membership, they were: a. Membership is not an occasion for snobbishness or preference; b. Personal censorship of speech; c. Loyalty to college and church as well as to Fraternity; and d. Abstinence from alcohol and tobacco.
The principals of the early Fraternity were stated in the constitution in 1917:
The primary focus of the fraternity shall be the promotion of good fellowship among its members and the advancement of truth, justice, and virtue, as exemplified by our Latin Motto: Honor Super Omnia.
It is the faith of the Fraternity that its worth may ever be shown by the lives of its individual members.
The Founder realized that in its final analysis, the Fraternity would rise or fall based on the desire of the members to seek higher ideals or be satisfied with the status quo. Our challenge is to live up to and uphold these high ideals.
In 1989, the Alpha Chapter of Kappa Delta Rho set a precedent by extending brotherhood to women at Middlebury College. This voluntary decision preceded the college's mandate that fraternities be coeducational, and the Alpha Chapter continues to uphold the tradition of the brotherhood regardless of sex. The term "brotherhood" transcends the denotative "male sibling" definition, and to us represents the equality of all members in all of our relations.
This voluntary decision by the Alpha Chapter resulted in having its charter from the National Fraternity revoked. The Alpha Chapter continued to function as a local chapter while pledging and extending brotherhood to women. After eight years of deliberation with the National Fraternity, the Alpha Chapter was readmitted to the National as the Alpha Chapter of Kappa Delta Rho Society in 1997. Regardless of the term "Society", the Alpha Chapter of Middlebury College continues to embody the characteristics and traditions of the Fraternity.
The history of Kappa Delta Rho continues to unfold. The original vision of the Founders is still in place as we consolidate our efforts and focus greater resources on chapter services. We do not need to find new reasons for our existence as we strive to continue with perpetuating our motto, Honor Super Omnia.
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ΚΔΡ throws down Animal House style. You haven't done college 'till you do a toga party, so come in your frattiest, most Greco-Roman getup and get ready to SHOUT!
Often described as one of Middlebury's biggest and best annual social events, the ΚΔΡ Marriage Party brings the campus together to celebrate via the time-honored tradition of marriage, ΚΔΡ style. Dress to impress and ride our stretch Escalade limo down to the house from Adirondak circle, and enjoy a night at our classy wedding-themed frat house. When you find the love of your life and feel like you're ready to take your (possibly brand new) relationship to the next level, you can proceed to our altar room where you'll find a ΚΔΡ member dressed as a priest ready to conduct your ceremony underneath our ivy-decorated wedding arch. We'll provide the rings, mood lighting, decorations, and sick beats.*
*Polygamy is not prohibited.